Frequently Asked Questions

About The Fulcrum Foundation

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‘’Fulcrum Celebrants believe that marriage is a lifelong connection between two people whose values are based on equality, common purpose, tolerance and compassion’’. We pride ourselves on being wholly inclusive, because we believe that everyone is entitled to freedom of thought, to have a voice that should be heard and to have the right to express themselves. Fulcrum Celebrants place no barriers or stipulations on the couples we work with, we embrace everyone who thinks our values sit well with their own.

What are our values?

Integrity: To recognise all actions should be based on truth and humility, and with fairness and respect for others. To find Common Purpose. To inspire and encourage acceptance, co-operation and collaboration for the common good. Awareness: We speak or act only with objectivity, empathy and mindfulness. Service: We achieve outcomes for ourselves and our communities through charity, helpfulness and compassion.

What is our aim?

Our aim is to provide you with a ceremony that fully reflects the people you are and is tailored to your wishes.

Where do we work?

Fulcrum Celebrants offer legal weddings and civil ceremonies across Scotland.

How much do we cost?

We charge from £650 plus travel costs depending on the nature and location of your ceremony.

Frequently Asked Questions

Are your Wedding Ceremonies legal?

Yes, as a Marriage Officer with The Fulcrum Foundation I can legally marry couples who share our core belief about marriage which is that "Marriage is a lifelong connection between two people whose values are based on equality, common purpose, tolerance and compassion".

Do you officiate Same Sex Weddings?

Absolutely, and I'm delighted to do so.

Does my religion or faith matter?

Not at all, in as much as the content of your ceremony isn’t restricted to any culture, faith or religion. So, if you want to add a cultural or religious tradition into your ceremony, you can as long as you support The Fulcrum core beliefs of Equality, Common Purpose, Tolerance and Compassion.

Where can I hold my Ceremony?

You can hold your ceremony anywhere you want: inside, outside, by a loch, in a forest at home. Just be sure to have a contingency for Scotland's famous weather.

When can I hold my Ceremony?

Anytime you would like: sunrise, sunset, up to you.

What can I include in my Ceremony?

You can add poems, songs, hymns, readings - whatever your preferences are then that’s what you will have. Pets are often a favourite at weddings, usually to give the bride away so really you can include almost anything.

What does the Celebrant do on the day?

I arrive at the venue about 45 minutes before the ceremony is due to start. If requested, we can have a quick rehearsal then. I check the room the ceremony is taking place in to see all is ok. I will then officiate your amazing ceremony, making it personal and meaningful to you both, and do all in my power to let you and your guests have the best time ever.

Do you conduct elopements?

Absolutely and I just love an elopement or micro wedding. Scotland is such an awesome country with wonderful venues in both the countryside and the city.

What bits do we have to do for the Ceremony?

You will always have to reply 'I Do' to your Declaration of Intention which is one of the legal parts of your ceremony, but other than that you can say and do as much or as little as you want. In some ceremonies, I do everything. In others, the couple invites friends and family to do readings or read poems. Fundamentally, it’s your ceremony and it’s up to you what you feel you want to do - there is no pressure.

Can a Celebrant provide a Traditional Ceremony?

Yes, no problem at all.

How long does a ceremony usually last?

Usually between 25 and 40 minutes dependent on the content in the ceremony.

We live in America and are coming to Scotland for a Handfasting Ceremony. Will you work with us?

Yes of course, and I'd love to. There are more and more people travelling from abroad to have a ceremony in the beautiful Scottish countryside.

Are you willing to travel?

Yes, it’s part of the job. My fee includes travel within 50 miles of Kinross, with any mileage thereafter being negotiated. There may be additional costs incurred depending on any out-of-the-ordinary requests arising from our discussions or when accommodation is required the night before your event.

Why should you pick me?

I am a great listener and for you to get the ceremony you want, you must be heard. You will not end up with a ceremony that is run of the mill and forgotten by everyone the next day and ultimately not really what you wanted. I make sure you get exactly what you want. I am a fully qualified Celebrant and in the many and varied roles I have worked in over the last 30 years, I have gained invaluable experience writing scripts and public speaking at both light-hearted and emotional public and private events. I love being able to work with clients and add value to their big life events. I am always available to support you, at all times, right up to your ceremony, and I will always give you the best of me. I'm also partial to a slice of wedding cake…….